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The Ten Best NSFW Experiences in New York City This Month

By: Sarah Saxty

Sexually risqué events and acts are becoming more attractive to everyday Americans than ever before, and the sex party scene is finding its footing in New York. Born out of kink parties, these “play” parties are founded on the shared notion of sex positivity—the belief that as long as the acts are consensual and safe, all forms and expressions of sex and sexuality are valid. This inspired our guide for curious couples, looking for anything but an average night out. Be entertained with some of the city’s wildest denizens and enhance your social (and sex) life with exclusive adventures, parties, or even classes with a “sex hacker”. Whatever you’re looking to explore, idk tonight is here to guide you through the real Sex and the City.

Ten Of The Best NSFW Experiences in NYC

Museum of Sex
233 5th Avenue, Manhattan

Consider this foreplay, a tame entry point into New York’s sexier side. The Museum of also known as ‘MoSex’ hosts curated exhibitions that chronicle the evolution of sexuality through the years. According to the website, “the museum produces exhibitions, publications, and programs that bring the best of current scholarship on sex and sexuality to the widest possible audiences”. It’s the perfect place to start your foray into this world.

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Rick's Cabaret
50 West 33rd Street, Manhattan

Private dances, sexy girls and topless entertainment awaits you at Rick’s Cabaret, New York City’s most sophisticated gentlemen’s club. This midtown strip joint has the honor of being voted the ‘Best Strip Club’ in New York by Playboy and is known for its elegant atmosphere, beautiful entertainers, and fine dining restaurant. The spot features three floors with three stages as well as private VIP suites, but if we’re being honest, the whole experience at Rick’s makes everyone feel like a VIP.

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Playboy Club
512 West 42nd Street, Manhattan

Inspired by the spirit of the iconic mansion, this club in midtown Manhattan has four separate rooms each offering a unique experience, with Playboy Bunnies at the helm. On select nights, you and your love can experience parties mirroring those held at the Playboy Mansion: think jazz nights, masquerade parties, and magic and cabaret shows. Dine on sushi or other culinary delights like Wagyu Miyazaki steak with toast, tomato jam, and butter, and indulge in artisanal cocktails curated by seasoned mixologist Fred Dex.

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SNCTM
Multiple Locations

Founded in Beverly Hills, SNCTM is a private, members-only club that hosts a monthly black-tie “Masquerade & Dîner”, quarterly classes teaching fetish & erotic arts, and a summer pool party series. Their soirées are places where curious individuals experience erotic theatre and explore their personal desires without judgment. The golden rule at SNCTM is consensuality, creating an environment of “exalted adult freedoms, a bona fide sensual utopia”.

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Skirt Club
Multiple Locations

Experience uninhibited living at Skirt Club, a girls-only members club, from London. Designed by women, for women, Skirt Club basks in glamour; free-flowing champagne, exclusive burlesque performances, Shibari demonstrations, Victorian corset fittings, and so much more. Monthly events hosted in New York away from the desires of men, their parties are designed to facilitate a night of consensual experimentation—no consequences, no questions, no expectations. Their next events are in May, June, and July for Pride Week.

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Kenneth Play
Online or On Location

Play and learn with a personal sex coaching session led by the acclaimed “sex hacker” expert, Kenneth Play. Kenneth develops and teaches sex hacks to help people learn new ways to play, and overcome challenges in the bedroom. With his playful style, he helps clients regain sexual confidence, experience more pleasure, and cultivate deeper intimacy in record time. Choose from a variety of specialized classes like “Penetration”, “Oral”, or “Squirting”. Lessons are also available online for those that like a little privacy in the classroom.

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Wonderland
Various Locations

Wonderland has a stronger dance party and costume vibe than some other parties. These everybody-friendly love-fests promise to resurrect your kinkiest costumes and expand your sexual horizons. For nervous newcomers to the sex party scene, this playful scene may be the perfect starter event. People come for the sex, yes, but they also come for the ecstatic aesthetic experience. If you like costumes, art, dance, some BDSM, and Burning Man, you have found paradise. They’re usually held once a month or so, and their next party is in May.

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House of Scorpio
Address disclosed post-registration

House of Scorpio has something for almost any curious mind, from mixers to full-on playtime. PG-rated Under Cover (hosted every fourth Thursday of the month), is a pervy-community-building mixer, and probably the best place to start if you’re new and want facilitated introductions and detailed explanations of how it all works. Catering to the more adventurous tastes, Lip Service (every second Fri) is a making out party, and the one they’re the most well-known for…think of it as rated R instead of X. They also offer XX rated parties, book clubs, classes to become a “badass in the bedroom” and movies nights—definitely a new way to look at Netflix and Chill. Find all their events here.

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Pandora's Box
250 West 26th Street, #1, Manhattan

One of NYC’s premiere BDSM dungeons, Pandora’s Box welcomes both couples and singles to explore their ultimate roleplay fantasies. They offer a variety of different, well-decorated rooms—think a medieval style dungeon/torture chamber, a Chinese-themed room, a frilly room catering to cross-dressing fetishists, and a faux classroom complete with teacher and student desks and chalkboard. Go; you’ll find yourself all locked up with nowhere to go, in the sexiest way.

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Killing Kittens
Multiple Locations

Killing Kittens is a members-only community for adventurous couples around the world, with decadent and hedonistic parties focused on the pursuit of female pleasure. Their parties are designed to encourage, liberate, build confidence and allow experimentation, all within a safe environment led by the team of Kittens. Their next (members only) event is on April 26, 2019 hosted at an exclusive West Village townhouse.

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