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The Best NSFW Experiences in New York City This Month

By: Sarah Saxty

This guide is for our couples looking for something way beyond an average night out. Oral sex workshops, exclusive private parties, sexy live performances, and even a naked retreat—there are plenty of things here to whet your appetite. As a society, we’re returning to that nomadic sharing of resources: ride shares, house shares, bike shares—we’re in a sharing generation now. Why not share your sexual experiences too? Discover all of these opportunities and more, right here in the city. Here’s our latest NSFW guide for curious couples.

Ten Of The Best NSFW Experiences in NYC

Hacienda Community
Multiple Locations, Brooklyn

“Celebrating Sex, Community and Self Expression,” Hacienda Villa, one of four locations, is an unassuming brick row house across from an auto-body shop. Below the open-concept kitchen-living room where 14 roommates have house meetings about chores is a basement where events are hosted to the public, like the upcoming Couples Oral Sex Workshop on August 12. Hit up the website to add your email to be invited to join as a member and get access to the most sauciest experiences on offer.

Hacienda
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Chemistry
Clinton Hill, Brooklyn

A laid-back but still decidedly sexy affair, Chemistry is the sex club for those that need a little help easing their way into the idea of a sex club. A mix of sexy performance and live music, this monthly soiree makes sex partying feel shockingly comfortable. Prospective members must apply through the website; once accepted, you’ll gain access to the events, which are known for their burlesque shows, fire dancers, sultry themes, and, of course, public sex.

Chemistry NYC
Credit: Chemistry
Naughty or Nice Staycation
11-01 43rd Avenue, Queens

The Z is a hip boutique in Long Island City, Queens, and its reasonable rates alone will get you in the mood for some hanky-panky. But the Z doesn’t stop there. The hotel offers “naughty” and “nice” packages. While both offerings include an overnight stay, “nice” packages feature champagne and roses, in-room massages, and breakfast in bed. An intimacy kit (with edible underwear, handcuffs, a tickle feather, and blindfolds), a book of erotic games, and chocolate strawberries and champagne come with the “naughty” package. We have a feeling we know which you’re going to choose…

Z Hotel NY
Credit: Z Hotel NY
Open Relationship Coaching
Multiple Locations

Monogamy isn’t for everyone. There are infinite possibilities for alternative relationship structures, and this is an opportunity to get one custom-tailored by Effy Blue, a relationship coach in Brooklyn. “Effy works with: triads, or three people in a committed relationship together; individuals seeking to transparently date multiple lovers simultaneously; partners who each have intimate friends, all of whom are close; and clients cultivating long-term relationships with someone who already has a primary partner.” (The New York Times)

Effy Blue - New York Times
Credit: New York Times
Join A “New” Wellness Society - NSFW
Multiple Locations

Password protected, that’s how good it is. NSFW offers “safe, judgement-free adventures in sex and cannabis for a carefully curated group of young creatives in New York City.” The party includes servers that are called “nymphs”, clad in all-white leather gear, overseeing check-ins, sobriety levels, and departures of event attendees. Explore bondage-basics at KinkLab, learn spiritual sex practices at Sacred Pleasures, enjoy some fantasy play at PlayDate, dine with top chefs at the supper series Dankquet. Whatever you’re looking to explore, NSFW has you covered. Members Only.

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A Different Kind of After Work Happy Hour at Bowery Bliss
Details After Registration

Bowery Bliss is a private club located in Manhattan. Join them and other adventurous party-goers every Tuesday from 8:00 pm for their AfterWork Party. Complimentary sodas and mixers served all night but there is no alcohol for sale, but there is a BYOB policy. Complimentary snacks and desserts, and condoms are also offered as well as robes and towels available for use. This is a members-only venue and an annual membership fee of $20 is applied to all new members in addition to the party price.

Bowery Bliss
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Rise Like a Phoenix at Skirt Club
Various Locations

Experience uninhibited living. Skirt Club promotes glamour: cocktails, champagne, seductive performances and…much more. Away from the desires of men, Skirt Club parties are designed by women, for women to facilitate one night of consensual experimentation – no consequences, no questions, no expectations. The next party will be hosted on September 20 in NYC for a Phoenix Rising members and ladies only evening at a stunning penthouse in Tribeca. Tickets include champagne.

Skirt Club
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Be A Babe At Babeland
Multiple Locations

This is the kind of homework you’ll want to do. Babeland is the famously fun, women-founded sex toy boutique known for top quality products and honest sex information. Join them for free 15 – 20 minute in store events and workshops like Just The Tip: Top Tips for Penis Play on Aug 23, or  #BDS Monday: BDS Dynamics on August 26. They also offer more in-depth paid workshops including performances and more.

Babe Land
Credit: Babe Land
Subspace Swingers Party
Midtown East, Manhattan

On the last Sunday of every month, join the Subspace Swingers crew for 3-hour “Get it in and Get it Out” Swingers Party held in safe, upscale hotels, apartments and lofts in the Midtown East area. This is a party for women that like to be the center of attention and guys that like to play in a group. Single men, single women and couples are all welcome to attend. Indulge in your fantasies, explore your kinks and enjoy all forms of safe, sane and consensual play with group playrooms, semi-private areas, smoking section, BYOB bar, cocktail lounge and a discreet, secure entrance. 

Subspace Swingers Party
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Strip Away What No Longer Serves You - Naked Retreat
Multiple Locations

NAKED – The Retreat is not just another retreat. It’s a playground. A 7-day fun, revolutionary retreat, taking you on a physical, emotional and mental journey, being comfortable in your own skin. Combining yoga, dance, meditation, communicating transparently, sharing circles and healthy eating. The next NAKED retreat will be hosted in September, in Tuscany Italy. The initial contribution covers food, accommodation and a personal chef, there is no set price tag for the tuition of the retreat experience. Instead, participants decide for themselves what tuition amount feels right, clear and fair, reflecting their financial condition as well as feeling of value and gratitude.

Naked Retreat
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