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Black Door x Yes Mistress by Decadence NYC



Load up on liquid courage for the night by taking your lover to Black Door for drinks. After opening the (surprise, surprise) heavy black door, you’ll walk into a low-key bar whose dark walls, dim lighting, and sparse art give off a low key, almost apartment-like feel. This place has an earned neighborhood reputation as a nice place to sit and drink at a relaxed pace. They’ve got a well-stocked bar and will give up the good stuff at a decent price, so don’t be afraid to go for a whiskey or something of that ilk.

Decadence NYC’s monthly play party attracts dominatrixes of all kinds, so it’s perfect for a couple that’s part or entirely submissive. People of all genders are invited to come and explore their submissive side at this upscale, loft-esque space. The club provides all the supplies needed alongside light refreshments, so all you need to bring is a sense of adventure. The first hour kicks off with a free social mixer, and if all feels right you can stay to play for four hours at only $60 per couple—but feel free to pay more, if that’s your thing.

Midtown West
Drinks, Play (the adult kind)
Intimate, Stylish

Black Door

127 West 26th Street, Manhattan

idk tip: The lighting is dark so be prepared to whip out a phone flashlight if you need to read the menu.

Credit: Black Door

Yes Mistress!

289 7th Avenue, 4th floor, Manhattan

idk tip: If you’re arriving separately to rock that classic stranger role play, know that it’s $80 for submissives and $10 for dommes.

Credit: DecadenceNYC, Eventbrite