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The Sexiest NSFW Couples Experiences This Month

By: Kimberly M. Aquilina 

There are only so many pumpkin spice lattes you can gaze longingly over. Only so many bales of hay to ride atop with your date’s arm around you. Only so many apples to pick while you walk tree to tree holding hands. While the temperatures drop and other couples shiver over mugs of hot cider, give thanks for the sexy and make autumn steamy again with this list of NSFW date ideas in NYC.

Read on for our top NSFW date-worthy events in NYC. 

The Sexiest NSFW Dates In New York

FEAST AND F...um, *ahem*
Lust for Life
Lot45, Bushwick | Nov. 16

We should warn you — this is the sexy motherlode. What could possibly be more sensual, succulent and sinful than eating food served on hot, naked bodies? Eating with our hands is basic and animal; while nourishing your date is highly intimate and deeply, shall we say, sumptuous.

Lust isn’t your average “Friendsgiving” feast. Beginning at 7 p.m., you move through the eight courses by going body to body tasting the delights offered by Chef Samia Behaya. Once you have sated your appetite, get ready to indulge your other carnal cravings as the main event starts at 9:30 p.m.

Titillate your senses with a Magick ritual, human candelabra, interactive Shibari experience and a private dungeon lead by Head Mistress Lydia Vengeance and her Vengeance Vixens. You can relax in the cuddle puddle or drink in performances and live music. Let contortionists confound you, aerialists amaze you, fire dancers dazzle you and burlesque performers provoke.

Get your tickets here, kittens.

idk tip: Although this sounds like a very sex-forward night, be aware that there is an “above the belt” rule in effect. Dress erotically and bring out your fetish finery, but FYI there is no sex permitted. And as always, consent is sexy.

PRICE: $45-$175

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FETISH AND FITNESS
Bask in the (After)GLOW
3F Studios, Manhattan near Union Square | Nov. 13

Think having sex standing up against a wall is just possible in the movies? Is your idea of shower sex taking turns freezing while you alternate who gets to be under the stream of hot water? Goddess Lola Jean will take her knowledge of Brazilian Ju-jitsu and teach you — regardless of gender or actual brute strength — how to lift and carry your lover.

This isn’t the same wrestling you might see on that Netflix show. If you’re considering how fun it would be to toss your lover on the bed, idk tonight is tossing you an exclusive offer! First, follow sex educator and wrestling fetish expert Lola Jean on Instagram. Then, post a photo of you and your date with the hashtag #idktonight. Be creative with your photo and caption to capture Lola Jean’s attention. Her favorite couple will win a free pair of tickets! Winner will be announced Nov. 7 on Instagram.

Although you will be in workout gear or comfy clothes in the class, try the moves you learn in nothing but your sexy skin when you get home! If you think the class is enticing, imagine how arousing a headlock with your partner’s thighs can be without clothes.

PRICE: It’s OK if you don’t win the exclusive idk tonight giveaway. You can purchase tickets, priced for singles ($45) to trios ($120), here.

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You Dirty Birds!
House of Yes, Bushwick | Nov. 23

DETAILS: Give thanks for sex positivity, safe places, and danceable beats when House of Yes turns it’s weekly Dirty Thursday party into Dirty Turkeys. For the first time ever, House of Yes will be open on Thanksgiving, so while everyone has the meat sweats, you can shake your stuffing or let the food coma overtake you in the nap zone. Want to pregame and sweat off some pounds before the big feast? Let your Unicorncopia runneth over on Nov. 22.

idk tip: You might get a free drink if your costume wows the staff. And, as we mentioned in July, the bathrooms are (arguably) the best selfie spots in town. Choose the bathroom you feel most comfortable in, but FYI the one on the left…. Oooo! Each stall has a different décor theme. Is the pearl stall just so you or are you into the wall of mirrors? Post and tag idk tonight on Instagram to show us your favorite.

PRICE: You’re going to love this… Dirty Turkeys is FREE! Register here.

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You Betta Werk
Stripxpertise, Garment District: 520 8th Avenue btw 36th and 37th — 10th, 16th & 17th floor

DETAILS: Maybe you and your S.O. are looking to spice things up, work up a sweat and release those pheromones. Let the experts at Stripxpertise show you how to bump and grind like a pro. Not sure you are ready for the pole? Start off with a floor work class or a basic lap dance lesson. Group classes are available as well as private lessons.

idk tip: Not quite wearing white to your wedding? GOOD! Bring it like the God/Goddess you are by taking private lessons to give your new spouse a wedding night they’ll never forget.

PRICE: Get special pricing for new students here.

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KEEP IT KINKY
Literally NSFW
NSFW, Highline | Nov. 17

DETAILS: What would a roundup of NSFW events be without an event from the merry kinksters at the club called NSFW? The cozy clubhouse in Williamsburg has taken its growing membership to a new clubhouse in Manhattan with 16 rooms and a rotating dome that you can pile into!

Get your first lick of the flogger, taste of Dominant power, the rush of submission or learn bondage techniques at KinkLab, a night of sexy and interactive workshops. If you have plans that night or BDSM isn’t your scene, keep your eyes on the events popping up on the calendar. Danksgiving, a night of high cuisine (a CBD-laced gourmet meal), is coming up this month, too.

idk tip: New to the scene? Get a feel for what NSFW is all about at the Nov. 9 event Send Noobs.

PRICE: Tickets start at $39 for the single ladies and peak at $669 for a full VIP bedroom stay.

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See More Of Our Curated Dates This Week

Get to Second with a Third
Rosewood Theater, Hudson Yards | Nov. 9

DETAILS: As they say, two is company and three is a crowd… and sometimes a crowd is just what we’re looking for. (Un)dress to impress in your red and gold skivvies while you dance to live DJs, hit the Glam Station, ride ‘em cowgirl with Sybians or play some sexy games. Second Base by Hacienda is extra special because there is a speed dating event at 9 p.m. where you and your primary can find a third play partner!

Don’t be shy! A spanking bench is fun, but a St. Andrew’s cross is always inviting.

PRICE: Unfortunately, the $15 and $20 tickets are sold out, but you can still hit this hot event when you buy $25 tickets.

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D/s? Oh yes
3F Studios, Manhattan near Union Square | Nov. 12

DETAILS: November 12 is jam-packed with fun for everyone. Eager submissives learn how to please their Mistress while maintaining healthy boundaries at 6:30 p.m. Then, at 7:15 p.m., Female Dominants bring back the basics with FemDom 101.

idk tip: If you’re into foot worship or just looking for a super affordable foot massage, For The Love of Feet is scheduled for 9:15 p.m. Save by buying a ticket bundle.

PRICE: Tickets range from $15 (those who want their feet worshipped) to $65 (the bundled price for the submissive orientation and access to the foot fetish parlor).

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JUST A LITTLE SPICE
A Damsel in Dis-sex
Babeland NYC, Lower East Side | Nov. 15

DETAILS: Get it? Damsel in distress? Damsel in… Oh, never mind. That might have been a reach, but let Come As You Aren’t, a Roleplay 101 workshop, by Babeland help you stretch your imagination and reach new levels of play. Want to play doctor? Or someone can be the teacher; someone can be the disobedient student. Someone will even win a gift card!

PRICE: FREE! Register for the class online, but be sure to get there early so you won’t lose your spot.

FOR THE VOYEURS
Just a Piece of (Street) Meat
Secret Loft, Greenwich Village

DETAILS: Not a doer? That’s A-OK! Sit back and take in the sights and sounds of NYC burlesque and pole dancing at Secret Loft’s Street Meat. The event page on Facebook touts this night at the “wokest burlesque show for the city that never sleeps.”

Stripping is more about the destination. Burlesque is about the journey and what a fun ride it is! “Just like NYC, this show will leave you sweaty, stimulated, and with plenty of new material for your therapist,” the description boasts.

We’re sold… and our therapists are sure to love the tales we tell.

PRICE: $10-$30

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Give Thanks for Skanks
The Slipper Room, Lower Manhattan | Nov. 21

DETAILS: Venus Fly Trap is holding its Happy Skanksgiving! at New York’s seductive Slipper Room. (This is not a Slipper Room production. It is a guest event). “Jacq the Stripper and Rachel Green bring a fine crop of hilarious sluts to satisfy your salacious appetites,” or, in other words, laugh until your tits fall off at this sex-positive comedy show.

idk tip: Since Nov. 21 is a Wednesday, see if you can pop into the 1950s pinup Betty Paige-themed bar, Nurse Bettie, for a free burlesque show.

PRICE: $20-$30

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Who is this chick talking all the sexy?

Kimberly M. Aquilina is a sex writer, editor, blogger and recently, shameless Twizzler Nibs addict, with a B.A. in Communications from Penn State who went from having sex for the wrong reasons, dealing with the aftermath of sexual abuse, losing her sense of self and sexuality to finding her happiest self and best life ever. Kink and BDSM are a part of Kim’s identity and the part-time free spirit is part of the sex-positive community. She writes about sex but that does not mean she will have it with you… and the direct AF dominant woman will definitely let you know when you’re being inappropriate. Kim lives in Brooklyn with her two cats that serve as copy editors, in that they like walking across her keyboard and deleting large chunks of text right before deadline. Follow her on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter @KimESTAqui.